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Why some Women prefer Married Men

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Hello. Happy Easter. Hope you had a fab weekend. So today I'll be addressing this issue on why some single women prefer to date married men. In August 2015, over 32 million names of married men was leaked on Ashley Madison, a dating site for married men. Of course, they cheat secretly here, their identity is hidden. This event had me thinking if all men generally just want to cheat or there is another theory that sort of explains this. However, anyone can stay regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. But is there something about a man with a wedding ring that makes him more attractive, desirable, skater, funnier or even nicer? Or is it just our imagination or orientation?
Well, I took my time yo examine this issue and I came up with some reasons why women prefer married men. The reasons are summed up in SECURITY.
-COMMITTMENT
   Every woman wants a man who is willing and able to commit themselves to the relationship. This is guaranteed by the example of their marriage that tends to create the image of a perfect relationship in their minds. Most women believes man who can vcommit himself to a woman who he keeps in his house can as well keep up with them.
-SENSE OF MATURITY
   Most women want a man who I has a sense of maturity to guarantee her security. A man who is working, more educated, has a stable income and generally responsible meets the criteria for the selection of a good man by an average single lady. In modern times, the need to shop for and buy expensive clothes, gadgets, shoes, weaves, bags...you name it, is what most women see as too priority for dating these men.
-THEY ARE THE BEST GUYS
   These men are the best guys around. He is probably the best looking guy in his company and a couple of friends have vouched for him as being cool and able to handle women. He is adventurous, always there to take you on frivolity trips to destinations all over the world, ready to buy you your dream car and lots more. What's not to die for?
-FREEDOM
   The freedom guaranteed is unquantifiable. Most women feel no need to owe allegiance to nobody when they date married men because they do not intend on settling with such men, who of course have have wives in their homes.

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  1. Anonymous28 March 2016 at 17:41

    Nice job dear. You are very correct but those girls should know they'll be married too someday and their husbands too will be preferred, wanted and chased by younger girls. Its tit for tat.

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  2. lulu5 May 2016 at 15:52

    HMMMM

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