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Hello. Its been a while I posted here and I wanted to write on something quite interesting and argumentative. The issue on making out is such a big one to most teenagers and young adults as most people consider it a sin especially the Christian folks. So, is making out really a sin? I spoke to three ladies about it and here are their opinions:

Oore;
Well, I just hope the two people involved can control each other. It is advised not to go too far because one most times go beyond 'making out' to the actual sex. The sin the Bible says is fornication and adultery because of the contact points and the intercourse. And this is what God does not want except you have it with one you are married to. So, I think making out is not a sin BUT do not quote me. Check your motives and the thought that follow after the making out session and think about yourself and your future before you make out with anybody, just anybody.

Evi;
I don't think it is a sin personally, just that it is VERY risky because most times you would not even notice when you have gone too far. It is very easy too cross the line, very very easy. So, personally it is okay when both of you are sure, also it is safer when both of you know where you are headed. Not just anyhow relationship.

Peace;
I don't think its a sin as well but I don't think that should be what your\the relationship is about. This is because when you get too physical with someone (it doesn't have to be sex, making out is also part of being physical) it affects the decisions you take in the relationship. For example, breaking up might be hard because you can misunderstand the emotions you have because you have been physical with the person.

I hope to feature the opinion of guys soon but if you have any opinion on this issue, please leave a comment in the comment box below. Thank you so much for reading this post and I hope you have a lovely evening.
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  1. Anonymous29 January 2016 at 01:44

    Making out or no making out it Is a sin ...what is bad is bad ko ni oruko meji kò da ni

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  2. bro tayo29 January 2016 at 04:01

    Words we give to act these days, only God will guide us all. Pls kindly define the phrase 'making out'. The definition will go a long way to knowing if what you are about to do is right or wrong. So in your own definition, your conscience will judge you. #makingout/dating/relationships/etc #justgetitstraight.

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  3. Dr mks29 January 2016 at 04:08

    Making out! Lol sounds like making love or rather making babies lol. What are we really making? Sweet words for sweet moments Shey? Pls let's call a spade a spade. If u are a christian ooo, u dare not make, talkless of out. Flesh is flesh don't push it.

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  4. uncle jimi29 January 2016 at 04:18

    Why do people talk abt control wn we knw it's difficult? Why take a hard subject and score F, when you knw that which will give you an A. We don't make out with ppl we don't like or have feelings for do we, so where do those feelings go? U hide them under the skin? Forget maturity, making out isn't an option. If he needs ur company let him *take you out* (movies, restaurants etc), not make out under one apple tree. Shikenna!!

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  5. Sola29 January 2016 at 14:45

    Well..... Check yourself, know your partner, know your God. Jesus did not define adultery nor did I ever see fornication defined also, but if Christ could say looking at a woman lustfully is a sin, then what more making out or making love??? Make love to your bible,show love to people and make the word of God your watchword. God bless you.

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  6. Unknown1 February 2016 at 12:20

    Making Out is a NO NO...like hyper NO.
    It involves getting physical and all and at times as a growing adult we may not know when to draw the line.
    "Don't Smell what you won't consume" abeg.

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  7. Anonymous4 February 2016 at 22:42

    Making kini , I think, infact I know Its wrong jhare , unless you're married . Do not be decieved . We humans have little or no control over our urges . Hormones ni awon kini yin no be only saliva .
    If konjii should catch the guy nko .

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